So, the new trimester has began. A lot of things to think of not like the previous experience of me starting my new trimester.
As last year, I had problems with living with housemates. Next time, I need to remind myself that I should not stay with these girls who are not my close friends. Not all of them. But some of them especially those people who tend to be gang. They are dangerous.
Last year, I had this housemate who likes to see other people's mistakes but yet was blind of her own mistakes and her best friends' mistakes. Always, people tend to be blind and biased in their judgement to other people who they do not like so much compared to their best friend.
This year the problem is a bit minor. yeah, I did mistakes but I paid for it. But this girl interestingly is not willing to be fair when it comes to her part where money is involved. Quite a selfish girl. I am not insulting but truly based on my observation for all this long, I can see her nature of being selfish. Too selfish I guess. Interestingly, her best friend or best friends (which I am not pretty sure) seemed to fear her so much.
But again I do not hate her. But I think she is quite selfish. She has a lot of goodness of course. She helped people who help her. I think she also being more patient than at first. I admire her for her independence and her strong willingness to find money. But I think she also needs to stop for a while and reflect on her selfishness. As my friend reminded me before, this girl is actually quite good at manipulating other people and now I see that and actually is her victim.
Surprisingly, her best friend is willing to wash the dishes that she has left for days. Nice and very interesting to see how people enslave themselves to a person who is claimed to be best friend.
Welly maybe with this coming ramadhan , she will become less selfish. But after ramadhan, I am pretty sure she will back to her own selfish nature.
Regards
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